One of the most important questions when buying a home is: how much can I realistically afford? The answer isn't just about what the bank approves—it's about what fits comfortably in your budget without sacrificing your other financial goals.
The 28/36 Rule
Lenders use two key ratios to determine how much they'll lend you:
Front-End Ratio (28%)
Your monthly housing costs (principal, interest, taxes, insurance) should not exceed 28% of your gross monthly income.
Example: $8,000 monthly income × 0.28 = $2,240 max housing payment
Back-End Ratio (36%)
Your total monthly debt payments (housing + car loans + student loans + credit cards) should not exceed 36% of your gross monthly income.
Calculate Your Numbers
Let's walk through a real example:
- Gross annual income: $85,000 ($7,083/month)
- Other monthly debts: $400 (car payment + student loans)
- Max housing payment: $7,083 × 0.28 = $1,983
- Max total debt: $7,083 × 0.36 = $2,550
- Available for housing: $2,550 - $400 = $2,150
In this example, the maximum comfortable housing payment is $1,983 based on the front-end ratio.
Factors Beyond the Ratios
While lenders care about these ratios, you should also consider:
- Down payment size: More down = lower monthly payment + no PMI
- Interest rate: A 1% difference on a $300,000 loan = $200/month
- Property taxes: Vary dramatically by location (0.5% to 2.5% annually)
- HOA fees: Can add $200-$500/month to your costs
- Maintenance: Budget 1-2% of home value annually
- Utilities: Larger home = higher heating, cooling, and water bills
The "Affordable" vs. "Approved" Gap
Banks will often approve you for more than you should realistically spend. Just because you can borrow $400,000 doesn't mean you should. Leave room in your budget for:
- Emergency repairs
- Retirement savings (don't stop saving for a house!)
- Family goals (kids, vacations)
- Career transitions
- Healthcare costs
Key Takeaways
- Use the 28/36 rule as a starting point: housing should be under 28% of gross income
- Factor in all costs: taxes, insurance, HOA, maintenance
- Don't max out your approval—leave buffer for unexpected expenses
- Consider your long-term plans: a 30-year commitment requires long-term thinking